You're accomplished.
You've succeeded.

Yet, you crave more

passion, purpose, & peace of mind.


I'm Charis (like Paris)

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You're accomplished.
You've succeeded.

Yet, you
crave more

passion,
purpose, &
 
peace of mind.

____________________

I'm Charis
(like Paris)

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Hear My Story

How a life-altering balloon accident reshaped my journey...

Hear My Story

How a life-altering balloon accident reshaped my journey...

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I don’t give you more of the same.

I challenge everything you think you know.

I don’t give you
more of the same.

I challenge everything
you think you know.

Cheers for Charis
...as a Speaker

Cheers for Charis
...as a Speaker

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"If you’re looking for a speaker who goes beyond the ordinary and delivers something truly memorable, Charis is it."

"Charis' presentation to our R360 chapters was one of the most creative and engaging talks we’ve hosted. She masterfully weaves together storytelling, symbolism, and hands-on experiences to create a truly immersive journey. Her use of custom materials, like hand-crafted wands and scrolls, isn’t just for show—it deepens the impact, making her message of transformation and fearless growth truly resonate.
Beyond her compelling content, Charis brings a level of thoughtfulness and personalization that resonates with high-achieving individuals seeking deeper fulfillment and clarity. Her ability to blend deep personal insight with an interactive experience is rare, and it left a lasting impression on our members. If you’re looking for a speaker who goes beyond the ordinary and delivers something truly memorable, Charis is it."

Michael Cole, R360 Global / Managing Partner

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...and as a Coach

Rick Hale

"she kept pushing... and flipped the script on me"


➡️ Watch the video clip (on right) of Rick sharing about his first session with Charis


"
Success is usually defined by KPIs, yet holistic success is about significance. On my last day, it won't be about a spreadsheet but about the hearts I've touched and the stories that are to be retold. After every conversation with Charis, I feel better and acknowledge myself for things that don't show up on any spreadsheets, guiding me toward what really matters. Charis is skilled at interrogating reality, providing clarity around my goals during life changes. Her loving candidness is a gift. We’ve also worked out a few kinks with family along the way. Charis’ coaching focuses on perspective rather than performance, which is crucial for achievers. Her mantra to "flow for it" instead of "go for it" has been a game-changer."

Rick Hale, Author, Entrepreneur, and CEEO in Atlanta, GA

Rick Hale

"she kept pushing... and flipped the script on me"

"Success is usually defined by KPIs, yet holistic success is about significance. On my last day, it won't be about a spreadsheet but about the hearts I've touched and the stories that are to be retold. After every conversation with Charis, I feel better and acknowledge myself for things that don't show up on any spreadsheets, guiding me toward what really matters. Charis is skilled at interrogating reality, providing clarity around my goals during life changes. Her loving candidness is a gift. We’ve also worked out a few kinks with family along the way. Charis’ coaching focuses on perspective rather than performance, which is crucial for achievers. Her mantra to "flow for it" instead of "go for it" has been a game-changer."

Rick Hale, Author, Entrepreneur, and CEEO in Atlanta, GA

⬇️ Watch the video clip (below) of Rick sharing about his first session with Charis

Mike Taravella

"the best coaching I've ever had, and I don't say that lightly"

"This is the best coaching I've ever had, and I don't say that lightly. Charis gets to the root of things so that real breakthroughs happen. There are so many coaches out there telling guys like me to go do and achieve more, but grinding will only take me so far. None of that matters if I don't like how I feel. Charis is helping me learn how I can relax and enjoy the ride."

Mike Taravella, Investor in Nashville, TN

Paresh Mehta

"an insightful guide who will help you reach new heights"

"When you're committed to personal growth, you come to realize that once you get to the top of one self-development mountain, you find yourself at the bottom of another. Charis is an insightful guide who will help you reach new heights with an expanding awareness of who you authentically are."

Paresh Mehta, Investor in Austin, TX

Let's go on a
QUEST for Your
BEST Life


Quiet your voices

...How about we silence those inner critics and fear-driven thoughts?

Update your stories

...Isn't it time to rewrite those narratives that are keeping you stuck?

Expand your choices


...What if there are more opportunities and possibilities than you realize?

Seek your truth

...Ready to live in authentic alignment with your heart, mind, body, and spirit?

Trust your fearless compass

...How would it feel to rely on yourself with newfound confidence and clarity?


My life changed once I committed to my own quest.

Now it's your turn.

Be curious.
Be courageous.
Your future self will thank you.

Let's Chat

Check Out My Podcast

Check Out My Podcast

The Charis Your Life® podcast hit these charts!
Top 40
 in Entrepreneurship U.S. Apple Podcasts
Top 200 in Business U.S. Apple Podcasts
Top Charts in 6 Countries

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My Journey & Mission 


I know what it’s like to chase success while quietly craving something more.

I grew up watching my parents build an award-winning gourmet pasta business, learning the value of hard work and resilience. But at 19, my world changed in an instant.

My family was celebrating my dad’s 50th birthday with a hot air balloon ride when something went terribly wrong. The pilot shouted, “HOLD ON TIGHT. WE’RE GONNA HIT HARD!” The basket slammed into the ground, and my dad was thrown out, a rope twisting around his ankle. He was dragged the length of a football field. He survived, but was left paralyzed with a broken neck. My mom turned to alcohol to cope.

That crash became more than just a defining moment—it shaped the way I lived. I became a relentless high-achiever, constantly bracing for impact, believing that if I worked hard enough, I could outrun uncertainty. It gave me the illusion of safety and control.

It took years of inner work to realize that true success isn’t about doing more—it’s about leading your life with intention, courage, and peace of mind.

Now, I guide entrepreneurs and leaders to become the Chief Emotional Officers™ of their own lives, so they can finally experience the fulfillment and freedom they’ve been seeking.

Your next chapter starts now. Let’s Charis Your Life through private coaching.

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Become the CEO
Chief Emotional Officer™ 
of Your Life


Ready to look under the hood and learn how you operate so you can master your hidden emotional fears?

Want to finally push past the limitations of perfectionism and those pressures you’ve accumulated over the years?

Let's channel your fiery ambition inward to spark feelings of true fulfillment.

Cherish your life with me as your coach.

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Make your next chapter
your best chapter!

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Listen to Some Episodes

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From Overwhelmed to Empowered

Length: 9 minutes

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Flow for It™
(my personal motto)

Length: 10 minutes

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Stop Judging Your Turns – Reframe and Reroute

Length: 8 minutes

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Read Some Blogs

Charis Chats with Tim Brand – Many Hands

Charis Chats with Bill Protzmann – Musimorphic

Charis Chats with Katie Ann Powell – Music and Money

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Owls can navigate in the darkest of night…
 

I’ll be your guide and shine a light for you.

Owls can move their heads nearly full circle… 

I’ll help you see new perspectives.

Owls have terrific binocular vision… 

I’ll bring things into focus.

Owl Guide You®


Owls can navigate in the darkest of night…
 

I’ll be your guide and shine a light for you.

Owls can move their head nearly full circle… 

I’ll help you see new perspectives.

Owls have terrific binocular vision… 

I’ll bring things into focus.

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***DON'T MISS THIS***

Behind the Scenes

I hope you enjoy connecting with me and find my approach refreshing as you learn supportive ways to Charis Your Life 😉

A saying on the wall of my studio says, "Life is Art – Paint Your Dreams". I bought it in 2013, just a few weeks after my Mom passed away.

I loved the sentiment, yet I wasn't authentically living it then. Well, now I am, and I want that for you too.

(Be sure to check out the rest of my website and read these 'Behind the Scenes' notes at the bottom of the pages. And don't forget to sign up to receive my emails below. You can also follow me on social media @charisyourlife.)

Oh, and the adorable dog you see everywhere is our 5-lb Havapoo named Heidi.

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